On this Sexual Assault bullshit

Regarding Jian Ghomeshi and Bill Cosby's recent troubles for their dating history... sexual assault is very serious. I get that, when i hear sexual assault i think rape. I honestly don't think 'sexy, open-handed slap' as per Sean Connery but this media crucifixion both in Canada and the US is going overboard. It's not even 'she said/he said', it's all 'she said'. There's no physical evidence, only one-sided memories. Men can't give their sides of the story and that sucks. I haven't read that Jian or Bill forcefully penetrated anyone. I've heard they've given money or favours in return for sexual wants (as per the women) but i haven't heard any of these women say why they continued to see their alleged assaulter after the initial physical violence.

I know it's unpopular but it's also unjust. I don't know what the statute of limitations is on these matters but if you've waited a decade to report it, it either was A) so emotionally traumatizing you couldn't speak about it or B) not that big of a deal, in your overall mental state.


If you have a relationship with the alleged for years, took money from him for years doesn't make you a victim, it makes you a whore.

If you give the alleged a blowjob in return for a job interview, doesn't make you a victim, it makes you an opportunist who tried to short cut her way to success.

If you go out with the alleged AFTER you've been sexually assaulted, your accusations lose a lot of credibility.

If you are Janice Dickinson you are a media-hungry ex-drug addict that nobody should ever take seriously.

If you bought or read 50 Shades of Grey or can't wait to see the movie then you are part of the problem.

If you walk around with your tits hanging out, demanding to be taken seriously, you won't be.

That's all. We now return to our regular scheduled programming.